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July 30 about predictionToday I met my teacher who asked we three per-graduators to do the project.He is a wise man with deep insight and a pair of long-run eyes. No matter during the chatting or during the instruction, I find every word of his a meaningful sense. During the last talking about one month ago, he tell us about the four significent plans about the four ten-year time periods. The plans are so logical and consequent and full of abition and persistance. What he told us is to make the blueprint about our seemingly long but acturally limited time. He tell us that one person has four essential ten-year periods, the first ten years are used to study and accumulating the foundation knowledge, then the second ten years are used to find a good job which can help us to support our own normal living, and the next step is to make money through the investment market which is full of risk but can help us to increase the income and accumulate the original captial. Then the last ten years are ulitilized to start his own business which is to set up the top finacial college which will cultivate lots of excellent students who are going to control the future economic situation of China and even the whole world. Thus life can be divided into four wonderful parts, and you will never to hesitate whether the choice of studying will contract with hunting a good job or will miss the proper time of making money. In this way, you could face your life and your dream more reasonable. Therefore, as one compotent of the competitive society the most vital thing we have to learn is how to ourline our future, that is to say how to coordinate our time, energy and passion. During today's lunch, I was so stucked by his words that the reason why a top man is distinct with others is that they can see the future development of the world earlier and more accurate than other ordinaries. Well this qulity depends on the large wide of knowledege and the sharp mind on the accidental events and a quick reaction about the surface trends. So as a common person we also confused with our future's development and we also rely on the destiny given and arranged by the God. Even though the things are destinied, we also can learn to predict and control it which need cultivate our sharp and accute sense of observation.Only we make an accurate evision of the future, can we control life more efficient and more marvolous! There is likelihood that this is the apparent huge gap between the simple figure and the charming experts. July 12 毕业了早就要写一些什么了,无奈,“忙”似乎已经成了我生活的主题,总是有考不完的试,写不完的论文,还不清的人情事故。本以为考完GRE之后可以轻松两天,没想到毕业论文中的模型又让我焦头烂额。完成了毕业论文,虽然稀里糊涂地得了个优,却越看越觉得恶心。中国的大学就是这个样子,在这里,看不到思想碰撞出的创新的火花,有的只是苟同世俗的庸俗与陈腐。想一想自己竟然还要在这样的地方再待三年,岂不是要白白地虚度青春嘛!
论文答辩的顺利完成,就意味着离大学四年的终点将越来越近。是该对这四年做一个总结了。这四年是我成长的四年,我开始慢慢理解人生,感悟人生,我学会了规划人生,奋斗人生。我不再沉迷于游戏,我不再热衷于追星,我有了自己的目标,我要为这个目标而努力。常说保研的人过着猪一样的生活,而我的保研生活却是猪狗不如,汗水和泪水交织而成。背负着旁人的冷嘲热讽,好面子的我感受到的负重不堪的压力。虽然我不求百分之百的回报,但是所得到的与所付出的却是成反比。也许际遇有时候讲究一个“缘”字,没有缘分的事情又何必强求。此处不留人,自有留人处。不该属于自己的,终究不会留下,应该属于自己的,一个都漏不掉。人活着就要活出自己的个性,追求自己的想要的生活。在苟活之中哀叹生不逢时,是蝇营狗苟之辈生活基调。蚌只有在历经不可想象的痛苦之后才孕育出了耀世的珍珠,花儿只有在经历不为人知的血雨腥风之后才能开出旷世的奇花。凡事不需要抱怨,只是因为自己能力的不足,才不能摆脱沉重的桎梏,才会觉得不如意。所需要做的只是逆境中不断地充实自我,超越自我,静静地等待机会的来临。
本应该回家享乐的我,却依然选择了北漂北京,复习托福。居无定所的我,想起了两年前为了考旧托时的情景。倾盆大雨冲刷北京城的那个黑夜,我背着行囊却无栖息之地。我清楚地记得,使那位好心的主任收留了我,给我安排了一个宿舍,让我安心地学习。两年后已经毕业了的我,依然是这位刘主任收留了我,让我有了一个休息的窝。也许,他已经不记得当年那个雨夜了,但感激之情依然长存。或许,这就是在最困难的时候,哪怕一丁点的火星都能燃起希望之光,都能让人感恩一辈子。
大学生涯就这样悄然地离去,虽然千般万般地不舍,但未来的路依然在继续,我依然在挣扎。未来的事情谁也不可预料,却眨眼间就会来临。现在的我已经不愿意再去预知未来了,只是更喜欢欣赏为未知的事情去奋斗的过程了。也许,过程是枯燥的,是痛苦的,但过程中留下的印迹却是持久的。不管最后的结果怎样,至少我已经尝试了。人生之路需要好好的规划,不要被眼前的景致迷惑而迷失了方向。尝试着放弃一些,有时候绝境更能激发人的潜能。认真地走好每一步路,认真地做好每一件事。这是一种人生的态度。
小不忍则乱大谋。人活着就应该不断寻找适合自己的环境,但首先要付出巨大的搜寻成本。有的人承受住了,成功了;有的人放弃了,郁郁而终。许多觉得撑不下去的时候,咬一咬牙,或许就过去了,奇迹也许就这样诞生了…… |
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